
What motivates the way you live? That may sound like a philosophical question, but according to Jesus, it’s a deeply spiritual one. In Matthew 6:1–4, He warns His followers not just about what they do, but why they do it: “Watch out! Don’t do your good deeds publicly, to be admired by others, for you will lose the reward from your Father in heaven.” That warning strikes at one of the most subtle temptations of our time—the temptation to live for applause.
We are surrounded by a culture built on visibility, recognition, and public image. Whether it’s our careers, our families, or even our spiritual lives, there is a pull in every human heart to be seen, approved of, and admired. The danger is not that we do good things, but that we do them for the wrong audience. Jesus isn’t challenging the act of generosity. He assumes His followers will give, serve, and love. But He exposes a deeper issue: motives matter.
Modern psychology identifies two major types of motivation: extrinsic and intrinsic. Extrinsic motivation is driven by outside rewards—money, applause, status, praise. Intrinsic motivation is rooted in inner conviction, calling, joy, and alignment with personal values. Jesus speaks directly to this when He asks us to consider whether we are living for the world’s attention or for the approval of “our Father who sees in secret.”
In His day, charitable giving was often done in public settings. Offering boxes were placed in visible locations, and some people treated giving as a performance. Jesus calls them “hypocrites”—a word originally used for stage actors. The problem wasn’t that they were doing good; it was that they turned righteousness into a spotlight moment. “They have received all the reward they will ever get,” Jesus says. In other words, applause may feel good, but it doesn’t last.
Then Jesus gives a radically different vision: “When you give to someone in need, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” The point is not secrecy for secrecy’s sake. The point is this: hidden obedience purifies the heart. When you give in secret, serve in secret, pray in secret, and love without an audience, you learn to live for God alone. You trade temporary applause for eternal reward. You stop performing and start worshiping.
So what does this mean for you and where you live? It means that the quiet, unseen things you do matter to God. Buying groceries for a struggling family without signing your name. Leaving a gift card in a mailbox. Paying a utility bill without acknowledgment. Serving at church in a way no one notices but God. These things are not small. They are the spiritual training ground where generosity stops being a show and starts becoming a lifestyle.
Secret generosity is not about hiding the gift—it’s about revealing the heart. And according to Jesus, the Father “who sees everything” will reward you. Not with trophies, titles, or social credit, but with something better: peace, joy, intimacy with God, and a life free from the exhausting pressure of impressing people.
So the question is not just “Are you doing good?” The deeper question is “Who are you doing it for?” If the answer is the crowd, the applause will fade. If the answer is your Father in heaven, the impact will last forever.
Maybe the most countercultural thing you can do this week is something completely unnoticed—except by God.





